… but enough about me

The April 10 edition of Cary Tennis’ Salon.com advice column, “Since You Asked,” features a remarkable response to a parent’s concern that his son is looking at gay porn online. I found this on OMG blog. I have never read “Since You Asked” before. I know nothing about Cary Tennis. But I think this is a really helpful way to think about the homo/hetero divide and, as Frank points out, a good way to think about anyone who is not like oneself.